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Marketing is like Dating: Follow these simple Rules to be an Effective Marketer


Marketing is a tricky business. On one hand, you want to stand out and capture the attention of potential customers. On the other hand, you don't want to come across as too pushy or desperate. In many ways, it’s like dating. You can't just walk up to someone and ask them to marry you on the first date (unless you're in Vegas, but that's a different story). Therefore, just like dating, it's important to start off slow and build a relationship with your audience before you start trying to sell them something unless, of course, you are in the market for short flings. Here are a few ways to do this properly:

1.     Be authentic: People can smell inauthenticity from a mile away, so don't try to be something you're not. Just be yourself, and your audience will appreciate it.

2.     Be helpful: Share valuable information, tips, and resources that your audience will find useful. This will help establish you as an expert in your field and build trust with your audience.

3.     Be consistent: Just like in a relationship, consistency is the key. Make sure you're consistently providing value to your audience and you'll be sure to keep their attention.

Once you've built a relationship with your audience, it's time to start thinking about selling. But just like in dating, you don't want to come on too strong. Here are a few ways to start selling without being pushy:

1.     Serious Relationships: One tactic that can be effective is to focus on building relationships with your audience. This can be done through social media, email marketing, or even in-person events. You can establish trust and credibility by consistently providing valuable content and engaging with your audience.

2.     Captivating Stories: Another tactic to consider is storytelling. People love a good story and are naturally drawn to them, and by weaving a compelling narrative into your marketing efforts, you can capture the attention of your audience and create a deeper emotional connection with them.

3.     Offer free trials: People are more likely to buy something if they've had a chance to try it out first. By offering a free trial, you'll be able to give your audience a taste of what you have to offer and make it more likely that they'll want to buy.

4.     Use social proof: People are more likely to buy something if they see that others have also bought it. Use customer testimonials, case studies, or reviews to show that other people have found your product or service valuable.

5.     Of course, sometimes the old-fashioned tactics still work best. A well-placed billboard or a clever TV commercial can still grab the attention of the masses. But we are in the "Digital Age" so don't underestimate the power of a well-targeted digital ad campaign.

At the end of the day, just like dating, it’s all about building a relationship, trusting, and then making a sale. The keys to being successful are to be authentic, helpful, and consistent.  Also, don't be afraid to try new things and see what works for you by constantly testing and iterating. As the famous marketer John Wanamaker once said, "Half the money I spend on advertising is wasted; the trouble is, I don't know which half." Follow these golden moves from the playbook and you'll be sure to find the perfect match for your business! Happy marketing!

 

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